Its been a year now since a drastic thing happened to me. everything that i have come to know and have learned to live with suddenly dissappeared before my very eyes. and a new fierce and challenging horizon is in front of me. during my studying days, i have spent every once of my strenght  tryin to prepare me for the real world, but now that im living and breathing in it. i have realize that nothing or no one can prepare you for what you have to face as you go on with your life, before everythings look foggy, unclear unsure and promising. but today its just plain simple black and white. it good or bad right versus wrong. so change is the only things that is really constant in this world. thats why i need to bend if the situation calls for it or be straight and firm if otherwise, but i have learned to adapt to changes, thats one of the best qualities of us filipino's we easily adapt to our environment. so if your exerting too much effort in preparing for the future, it will definetyl help, but it will only take you so far. that when you look back at your tracks you need to think again for the next step cause you ran out of preparation fuel, so take it easy relax things work out by themselves, ive learned that just in time.. hope you guys do to..